Hm, well, I can't answer all of your questions, but I might be able to help a little!
1. You're probably going to find a whole lot of stuff you want to buy, so bring a big duffle bag and rent a hotel room to keep your crap in. But yes, nearly two grand is enough. o.O;
Probably too much. Set aside one grand for a RothIRA when you get a job, I'd say. :shock:
2. Nooo idea. Sorry. I'm paying at the door. [ So lazy of me. ]
3. Just ask people before you hug people. Or "glomp," rather. It irritates some of us to be touched. XD
I've never hugged anyone at a con before, but when people find out you're a boy with long hair, they will attack you.
I had a few people at the second Kumoricon kiss me against my will and it was kind of traumatizing. ;____;
[ Be glad your mother is there to protect you. ]
Prettyboys, beware. They're after you. I know first-hand. *Cries*
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