"1)No Nudity and 2) Limited Profanity (if it can't be said in a PG-13 movie, it can't be said here)"
"Oh, and violence is pretty much okay so long as it isn't too excessive."
You fail miserably at making an anime club if you keep these rules. If you don't have these two, you are providing the bastardization in Americanization of anime through censorship. Anime is supposed to and always has been raw. If you expose people to anime without those elements, then they haven't seen anime all the way. And besides, you're trying to get people from the outside who haven't seen anime to join in, right? You don't want to throw them in and when they finally see uncut versions of the show, they'll totally be turned off by it because it isn't what they expected.
Throw freaking anime parties at people's houses. I'm sure many people you know have rich parents who buy their kids manga and anime DVDs, and there's hundreds of high school kids who have downloaded millions of anime torrents off the internet. I'm very sure if you keep running an anime club at your high school, your attendance will be pretty close to zero.
Now, I'm going to assume you aren't a member of the club YokoBM is vice-president of. I'm going to assume you're not a student at the school he attends either. I'd like to know how you can say he is failing, without even seeing what he is doing.
In a school setting, you're not allowed to just show whatever you fancy and not feel any backlash for breaking the rules. You can't just show something like Ninja Scroll and expect no administrator or teacher to care about a rape scene here or there. Sure, some of the great anime series out there have nudity or swearing in them, but some is not all.
For the past 12 weeks YokoBM and I have ran the club this thread refers to quiet well, with are member count to proves it. We've shown great shows that have fit inside the guide lines, which we established ourselves, so we could run a school-friendly club that would last.
It should be known we haven't shown anything censored either.
You are right that we can get around any and all rules by throwing a "freaking" anime party at a member's house. However, that would limit who could attend. As a club, we want anyone and everyone who wants to join in our activities. Holding a party would limit those who can't attend such events for one or another reason.
As an after thought, I counted our last attendance sign-in sheet. 23 excluding myself, YokoBM and our advisor. Not even close to 0.
Thanks for you opinion, we'll continue to fail just for you,
K.H previously-mentioned anime club Co-Founder and President