2. I have brown hair and no money for a wig, anyone know a good temp blonde dye? If not I'll reluctantly attempt to bleach :shock:
Alas, there is no such thing as a blond dye that works on brown hair-- unless you're referring to bleach. Bleach is pretty much the only thing out there that guarantees a lighter color and is reasonably safe.
I've been bleaching (part of) my hair for a couple of years now, doing it myself, and I've had pretty good luck with it. However, some people's hair is much more sensitive to bleach than others, so be careful!
A couple of tips:
1. Read the instructions on the bleach package. No,
really. If it tells you not to leave the stuff on your hair for more than thirty minutes, obey it. Better to come out with the wrong color hair than to fry your hair completely.
2. Cut off a lock of your hair and wrap a hair tie around it to keep it together. Then paint it in the bleach and wait. Take note of when you put the bleach on, and watch for it to become the color you want your hair to be. Then you know how long to leave it on for.
3. They mean it when they say that you shouldn't dye your eyebrows. If they bother you that much, shave them off for the time being.
I've never tried bleaching ALL of my hair. Frankly, if you can afford it I'd recommend getting it done by a hairdresser (though if you could afford that you could probably afford a wig).
But...good luck!