Yeah, like Irnogs said we in Salem have some sweet parties.
Our May event had 180 people there. Good times.
Anyway, yeah, if you are in Salem, a bunch of anime folks meet up at SIP (the bubble tea cafe) in downtown Salem. We just hang out, read manga, play yugioh, etc... It is on the second Thursday of each month from 7-9 pm.
I have been kind of busy with my new son and work starting up for the schoolyear so I haven't been as aggresively plugging the meetings, but they are happening. Like Irnogs said, just check our forums and website for the latest info.