We used to have to be on food stamps, and they'd look at my mom's bank statements so she couldn't order the stuff for me and I could pay her back. I'd ask friends if they could buy it for me online, because their parents would do stuff for that, and it'd ship to their house and they could give it to me at school.
): I'm sorry your mom hates cosplay and lolita. My parents love it, and even if they didn't, my dad can't say anything because he's a Rennie AND is in SCA (and he's even a laurel Dx).