So it sounds like we may be leaving by 12, but we also may be leaving by 1. Either way, I don't think I'll be able to make 3. So keep it at 3 and find yourself another priest, as although it sounds fun, I don't think I should. There's just too much disorganization with this event, in all honesty. Sorry. If I weren't coming from Seattle, perhaps it would be different...but as I am, it's probably not a good idea.
Good luck with your marriage! =3