Author Topic: Flirting at Cons... Inapproriate or AWESOME? 8D (Read 97416 times)

Edward~xD · « **Reply #450 on:** September 03, 2009, 08:08:32 pm »

Quote from: CatchxMe on September 03, 2009, 08:07:21 pm

That's what I like to hear, Eddy!

Stand next to me and men'll explode just by looking at our sheer amount of awesome. 8D

Darknight2433 · « **Reply #451 on:** September 03, 2009, 08:09:14 pm »

Quote from: Edward~xD on September 03, 2009, 08:08:32 pm

Quote from: CatchxMe on September 03, 2009, 08:07:21 pm
That's what I like to hear, Eddy!
Stand next to me and men'll explode just by looking at our sheer amount of awesome. 8D

DAN-

wait we don't want them to explode! D:

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #452 on:** September 03, 2009, 08:46:34 pm »

Only if we're at queeny's party.

Edward~xD · « **Reply #453 on:** September 03, 2009, 09:14:00 pm »

Ok. Thennn, the bad ones will explode and the good ones will feed off our awesome. 8D

wolfy2491 · « **Reply #454 on:** September 03, 2009, 09:17:57 pm »

Omnomnom. =3=

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #455 on:** September 03, 2009, 09:25:24 pm »

Woah. I leave to go work, and this is what I come back to. WOW. xD

wolfy2491 · « **Reply #456 on:** September 03, 2009, 09:29:18 pm »

Meh, it's what happens. lol.

OMG! YOU'RE DRESSING AS KAORU!!!! (Me and my friend are Mori and Hunny. I MUST FIND YOU AND GET A PICTURE)

Cassiopeia · « **Reply #457 on:** September 03, 2009, 09:37:25 pm »

Wolfy, come to the Host Club Tea Party..

wolfy2491 · « **Reply #458 on:** September 03, 2009, 09:41:35 pm »

Dude, fur sure. lol. I think it's too late to sign up to help, but I figured we could get the tickets to at least go. lol. How do we get said tickets? >.>..

Cassiopeia · « **Reply #459 on:** September 03, 2009, 09:49:52 pm »

You get them at the info booth, yo.

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #460 on:** September 03, 2009, 10:16:04 pm »

Quote from: DemonSpawn on September 03, 2009, 08:46:34 pm

Only if we're at queeny's party.

Ok so i will bring the Roman candles
lol so i can see i missed alot

Dubaby · « **Reply #461 on:** September 03, 2009, 11:20:16 pm »

Quote from: Griff_the_dragoon on September 03, 2009, 10:16:04 pm

Ok so i will bring the Roman candles
lol so i can see i missed alot

I know what you mean.... I got on this afternoon to like quadruple the pages from when I went to bed XD

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #462 on:** September 04, 2009, 01:32:48 am »

Quote from: Dubaby on September 03, 2009, 11:20:16 pm

Quote from: Griff_the_dragoon on September 03, 2009, 10:16:04 pm
Ok so i will bring the Roman candles
lol so i can see i missed alot

I know what you mean.... I got on this afternoon to like quadruple the pages from when I went to bed XD

Ya I was like wait 4 hours ago i say this at 13 pages and not it is at 31 O.e

Darknight2433 · « **Reply #463 on:** September 04, 2009, 08:35:27 am »

<3

See you lovlies at con!

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #464 on:** September 04, 2009, 08:46:15 am »

Come see me today guys! If yer goin'. Gotta get hugs in early before someone makes me angry. XP

wolfy2491 · « **Reply #465 on:** September 04, 2009, 02:24:32 pm »

Quote from: Cassiopeia on September 03, 2009, 09:49:52 pm

You get them at the info booth, yo.

Sweet. I'll try and be there. lol.

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #466 on:** September 08, 2009, 10:41:10 am »

SO. I actually flirted(apparently) and only with one guy. Turns out he had a girlfriend. And he was flirting back heavily. Ugh. Maybe I should just NOT. xD

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #467 on:** September 08, 2009, 10:50:37 am »

LOL, I'm sorry. Things like that happen.

nikkiolie · « **Reply #468 on:** September 08, 2009, 10:56:42 am »

I just wanted to give my two cents on this. Flirting is ok, it just seems to come out all the time for me. But please for the love of god do not ask me out. I find that extremely creepy if you know nothing about me and ask me out. I might actually consider it if we hug out for most of the con.

Here is an example. There was a guy that talked to me a little before the chess game, and I mean a little little, like can I take your picture? And then after the game was over he asked me out for drinks and I said no, then he said I looked more like a coffee person and I still said no. That was creepy. Now I don't want to know what he is doing with that picture x.x

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #469 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:06:18 am »

Oh, psh. I'd never ask someone out at a Con. That's creepy. Now, if I really felt a connection, (mostly just for my female friends, gotta say) then I'd give them my contacts and say they should try and get a hold of me sometime.

... Then again, I've never asked someone out. Period. xD;

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #470 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:32:38 am »

I was flirting with staff.
xD

Dont feel bad, Keru.
xD

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #471 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:34:46 am »

Oh fine, be that brave and show me up, will ya? xD

It's all good, I just don't think flirting is for me. Too many risks involved. :3

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #472 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:36:26 am »

Haha.
I just do it for fun.

When I get my phone fixed,
I'll tell you what happened.

and when it happened.
I didnt even noticed.

T_T

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #473 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:40:10 am »

Oh fun. xD

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #474 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:41:14 am »

I know..
I'll send it in a pm accally.
>_>
<_<

v_v"

Dubaby · « **Reply #475 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:56:32 am »

Quote from: nikkiolie on September 08, 2009, 10:56:42 am

Here is an example. There was a guy that talked to me a little before the chess game, and I mean a little little, like can I take your picture? And then after the game was over he asked me out for drinks and I said no, then he said I looked more like a coffee person and I still said no. That was creepy. Now I don't want to know what he is doing with that picture x.x

........ no bueno

I just feel like you should know a person a little bit before you actually ask them out to do anything... trying to meet up at a panel or something is one thing, meeting up for drinks is another XD

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #476 on:** September 08, 2009, 12:00:00 pm »

Lol.
ME and my friend saw a boy with seven differetn girls.

ThiefKingsHier · « **Reply #477 on:** September 08, 2009, 12:05:37 pm »

I personally dont like it.

Of coarse, it depends on the approach. If its IC ( REALLY IC not used as an excuse) or I have been hanging out with you all con and we are obviously getting along then it isnt so bad.
However (and this goes for everyday) I really hate it when someone random stranger walks upto me and starts flirting/following me around. It seems to be standard practice but I find it entirely unacceptable.

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #478 on:** September 08, 2009, 12:11:21 pm »

Well, I start to talk to them before flirting and I just make it seem normal.
I am a natural flirt.

melchizedek · « **Reply #479 on:** September 08, 2009, 12:53:23 pm »

People just need to understand boundaries. Also, people need to make their own boundaries clear.

Go ahead and flirt, but don't be dense. If flirting is obviously making someone uncomfortable, take the hint.

No means no, so listen, period. If someone continues unwanted advances, there is a phrase for that.

Sexual harassment.

No one flirted with me at con, guess I got no game and was too busy staffing to chase after cute girls (crie). However, I was quite flattered my first con when I was at the inuyasha photoshop (as seshi) and a kikyo asked me if I wanted to go hang out with her... get food coffee, can't remember exactly. Had to decline because I came with people and could not ditch out on them but still it was flattering. Nothing wrong with making people feel flattered

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #480 on:** September 08, 2009, 12:57:45 pm »

Oh, I understand that completely. I had a Con stalker. xB

It's just that I feel more comfortable at Cons, and my friend wanted me to try something new. Buuuut... It's not for me. I'm a best friend, not a girl friend. xD

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #481 on:** September 08, 2009, 12:59:33 pm »

When I flirt I'm just myself.
And I always mention withen the first day
what my bounderys are.

Me and some friends where in a secret thing...
and our Kiba told my friends boyfriend that sex after marriage would be a bad idea.
Becasue wiehter the relationship is sexual or not, it is all on Marriage.

I broke out laughing. All the girls were in skirts and with boys.
The positioning was helarious.
xD

My past followed me to con xD

leonmasteries · « **Reply #482 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:00:11 pm »

I see flirting as alright, and if the person your flirting with invites you to hang out, than go with them, otherwise just leave them alone when they leave, don't follow them. It's like when I was talking to the person who was in the hotel room across from mine. I talked to her, she left, than later on that night, I saw her again, and asked if she wanted to come hang out... She didn't go back till around 4... The next day, she came and knocked on our door and we hung out some more.

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #483 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:03:11 pm »

Dude, I spent the whole day with everyone I was flirting with.
Except the hot 17 year old staff member.

leonmasteries · « **Reply #484 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:09:01 pm »

Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 08, 2009, 01:03:11 pm

Dude, I spent the whole day with everyone I was flirting with.
Except the hot 17 year old staff member.

and that's alright, but if it seemed like they were trying to avoid you, than that's a different story.

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #485 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:17:08 pm »

I think everyone I meet loved me.
Normall everyone dose.
^^

I'm just like that.

TanisNikana · « **Reply #486 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:30:32 pm »

* TanisNikana can't and won't flirt at con.

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #487 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:35:29 pm »

*highfives*?

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #488 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:41:22 pm »

Haha.

Kayani, we should do something together next year.
xD

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #489 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:41:52 pm »

Totally. xD

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #490 on:** September 08, 2009, 01:43:10 pm »

Hmm...
I'm doing Namine,
I know that for a fact.
haha.
We'll talk on the pm xD

makichan · « **Reply #491 on:** September 08, 2009, 03:22:17 pm »

One of my friends flirted with someone at the con for two out of the three days. My other friend and I tried to help get them close but we were both able to tell that he just wasn't into her by the last day. I hope she doesn't keep trying :/
He seems more like the friend type.

wolfy2491 · « **Reply #492 on:** September 08, 2009, 04:50:13 pm »

Yeah, that whole "lets flirt at the con" I totally forgot about it untill I ran into CatchxMe at the forum meet up. XD

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #493 on:** September 08, 2009, 04:51:25 pm »

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #494 on:** September 08, 2009, 04:53:52 pm »

We have to do it next year.
We will do a whole Cosplay OC Flirt group.
and have it on are badges.
Or soemthing.
xD

Sugarlat · « **Reply #495 on:** September 08, 2009, 05:26:46 pm »

there was this guy flirting with my girlfriend right next to me -A-
I wanted to kick his butt cause he was checking her out too...

~X~Hyuuga Neji~X~ · « **Reply #496 on:** September 08, 2009, 06:00:37 pm »

there there Sugarlat 8| YOU KNOW HOW I FELT ABOUT IT TOO.

Eh, you need to pay attention to peoples ages. If you dont then uh, people can assume you're a creeper or something and just find the entire experience creepy. xD;

DancingTofu · « **Reply #497 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:28:47 pm »

My flirting amounted to randomly wandering around the con between shifts and collapsing somewhere near Megan whenever I found her, which was a total of three times. Pretty decent success rate IMO.

Mitsukai Mizu Amaya · « **Reply #498 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:50:13 pm »

I don't believe I've ever flirted in my life. xD People claim I have, but I'm just a very, very cuddly person.

oslapedo · « **Reply #499 on:** September 08, 2009, 11:55:49 pm »

lololol

I am so not the flirting type, I'm more a HAHA WAZZUP kinda person.

Good luck next year though I guess b

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