Author Topic: Flirting at Cons... Inapproriate or AWESOME? 8D (Read 87445 times)

makichan · « **Reply #50 on:** September 03, 2009, 03:01:02 am »

I can only flirt with people that I am uninterested in because I stumble over myself silly, otherwise... and therefore I find it pointless (unless if it's all in good fun and by no means serious).
But!
I think that flirting can be fine so long as you play it safe. Someone might return a little casual flirting here or there but they might have different intentions, if you catch my drift.
I ended up having to save a friend who did that at this year's Sakuracon. Luckily, I was able to dispose of him... heh.

Trumby · « **Reply #51 on:** September 03, 2009, 07:26:19 am »

Quote from: makichan on September 03, 2009, 03:01:02 am

I can only flirt with people that I am uninterested in because I stumble over myself silly, otherwise... and therefore I find it pointless (unless if it's all in good fun and by no means serious).
But!
I think that flirting can be fine so long as you play it safe. Someone might return a little casual flirting here or there but they might have different intentions, if you catch my drift.
I ended up having to save a friend who did that at this year's Sakuracon. Luckily, I was able to dispose of him... heh.

Agreed with Maki, on both counts. I'm really bad at flirting if it is someone I actually am interested in. I'd say you definitely want to watch out for yourself and make sure your friend(s) do too.

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #52 on:** September 03, 2009, 07:58:51 am »

I only flirt with my friends, so this is a big first for me, but I thought I'd try something out of the box. <3

xRIxKUx · « **Reply #53 on:** September 03, 2009, 08:40:57 am »

Quote from: Edward~xD on September 03, 2009, 01:44:28 am

Oooh. You're right about the negativity. Lol. My ex was abusive too. But I loved him at the time for all it was worth, so I liked to remember the good times. I'm not trying to be rude or anything.

So yes, stalk your victims to see who they realllly are before flirting. XD (jk jk) <3

(just lols and opinion expressing)

I am going to assume every stalker is going to examine me and would want to flirt now xD Lolx

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #54 on:** September 03, 2009, 08:45:17 am »

Quote from: xRIxKUx on September 03, 2009, 08:40:57 am

Quote from: Edward~xD on September 03, 2009, 01:44:28 am
Oooh. You're right about the negativity. Lol. My ex was abusive too. But I loved him at the time for all it was worth, so I liked to remember the good times. I'm not trying to be rude or anything.

So yes, stalk your victims to see who they realllly are before flirting. XD (jk jk) <3

(just lols and opinion expressing)

I am going to assume every stalker is going to examine me and would want to flirt now xD Lolx

Hey babeh~

xD
(couldn't resist, sorry) xD

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #55 on:** September 03, 2009, 09:42:03 am »

Quote from: xRIxKUx on September 03, 2009, 08:40:57 am

Quote from: Edward~xD on September 03, 2009, 01:44:28 am
Oooh. You're right about the negativity. Lol. My ex was abusive too. But I loved him at the time for all it was worth, so I liked to remember the good times. I'm not trying to be rude or anything.

So yes, stalk your victims to see who they realllly are before flirting. XD (jk jk) <3

(just lols and opinion expressing)

I am going to assume every stalker is going to examine me and would want to flirt now xD Lolx

I would hope not. that would be kinda creapy not gonna lie. i have never had a stalker but i would imagine it would suck

NightLotus · « **Reply #56 on:** September 03, 2009, 10:59:43 am »

going to con with a bf/gf is lots of fun! I met Patrick though con, and it was awesome

SO FLIRTING AT CON IS A DEFINITE YES

Agent47 · « **Reply #57 on:** September 03, 2009, 11:14:49 am »

Quote from: makichan on September 03, 2009, 03:01:02 am

I can only flirt with people that I am uninterested in because I stumble over myself silly, otherwise... and therefore I find it pointless (unless if it's all in good fun and by no means serious).
But!
I think that flirting can be fine so long as you play it safe. Someone might return a little casual flirting here or there but they might have different intentions, if you catch my drift.

This is basically my standpoint as well. I'm not much of a flirt in general, and when I am, it's usually not somebody I'm really attracted to, since I'd basically be like "a dur dur dur.. yer gorgeous.. a dur dur".

And likewise, I also thinking flirting in general is fun, as long as you don't give someone the wrong idea, or they don't get the wrong idea on their own.. and as long as it's all in good fun, and nobody is really too serious about anything(unless both people decide the flirting is going somewhere.. in which case they become one of those rare couples that met at a con.. lucky jerks. xD).

So yeah.. that's basically my standpoint. Flirting is fun as long as it doesn't become dangerous.. and if it actually goes anywhere, congratulations? Otherwise.. as long as everybody's happy and having fun, it's all good.

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #58 on:** September 03, 2009, 11:18:33 am »

Quote from: Agent47 on September 03, 2009, 11:14:49 am

Quote from: makichan on September 03, 2009, 03:01:02 am
I can only flirt with people that I am uninterested in because I stumble over myself silly, otherwise... and therefore I find it pointless (unless if it's all in good fun and by no means serious).
But!
I think that flirting can be fine so long as you play it safe. Someone might return a little casual flirting here or there but they might have different intentions, if you catch my drift.

This is basically my standpoint as well. I'm not much of a flirt in general, and when I am, it's usually not somebody I'm really attracted to, since I'd basically be like "a dur dur dur.. yer gorgeous.. a dur dur".

And likewise, I also thinking flirting in general is fun, as long as you don't give someone the wrong idea, or they don't get the wrong idea on their own.. and as long as it's all in good fun, and nobody is really too serious about anything(unless both people decide the flirting is going somewhere.. in which case they become one of those rare couples that met at a con.. lucky jerks. xD).

So yeah.. that's basically my standpoint. Flirting is fun as long as it doesn't become dangerous.. and if it actually goes anywhere, congratulations? Otherwise.. as long as everybody's happy and having fun, it's all good.

Me too. xD
Hence why I've never done it, 'cept with friends. :B
Usually when I think someone's attractive I can't even make a sound. Cause my type is so rare. xD

Yeah, that's what my friend said. She's been trying to get me to loosen up for awhile now. xD

I dunno how I'll do though. :B

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #59 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:17:49 pm »

You will do fine i believe in ya lol

Darknight2433 · « **Reply #60 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:18:55 pm »

We both do, yo!

Kayani_Neko · « **Reply #61 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:27:35 pm »

AWESOME. xD

Maybe I'll practice flirting with my poster of Yusuke Yamamoto... <3

Shadow · « **Reply #62 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:29:59 pm »

Now I'm wondering how many people I can get to question their sexuality. XD That is until I say something. Then that could just be awkward hahaha!!

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #63 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:34:50 pm »

yes it could lol

benjamin.riker@oit.edu · « **Reply #64 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:42:32 pm »

flirting at the con sounds like it could be fun but let me share with you a story of... well, warning....

i was talking to a nice young man i met at the con who was crosplaying. we were talking and enjoying eachothers company when he began to say that he was getting tiered of guys hitting on him. i asked if they couldnt see his red badge or if they knew he was well a he. to this he responded let me show you. a few people walked by and one man stopped for a second and struck up a conversation. it was going pretty well then i noticed that the new commer was starting to flirt with my new friend.

having just expressed his anoyance at this sort of thing he gave me a smile and started to play along with the newcommer flirting right back. it went back and forth till eventualy it ended up coming to a close when my new friend said "I hope you dont mind taking it from behind for a while becuase i have had way to much action to day to have any more. oh and by the way i am glad that you dont mind the fact that i am 12; for most people that is a turn off" after that the new commer left with quite a redface and his head bowed in shame we proceded to laugh our cloective bums right off for a a good while.

any ways thats all to say that yes i think it can be fun and who knows maybe i will flirt a bit my self if i have time off. but just remember to be careful who you flirt with..

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #65 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:44:15 pm »

LMAO if any of you see me with a Tifa, flirt with her, please!
It would entertain me much.
She's really pretty but my sister's all 'meh don't touch me' and the only boyfriend she ever had she broke up with because he wanted to hold her hand.
So plleeasseee! I really want to get her to socialize more, she's on the verge of becoming a cat lady. XD
She's 18 so, w/e. But keep in mind this is her first con, so don't scare her or I'll never get her to go with me ever again. XP

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #66 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:46:38 pm »

I'm going to flirt so bad.
Maybe.
Depending.
Haha.

I'm going to be walking around with a Mitsuki Haninozuka.
But I will also be in the Ouran Tea Party,
maybe as Haruhi maybe as a video student.
I dont know.

But I am defentily flirting with the cute Soras.
With K-Rock-Inc.
That rememinds me,
I need to send her a pm.

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #67 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:48:55 pm »

Ben that was funny thx
and demon what does you sister look like???

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #68 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:50:16 pm »

Lemme see if I still have pictures from her prom. :3

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #69 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:51:21 pm »

Prom!
Icky!
*pretends to barf*

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #70 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:53:00 pm »

Quote from: DemonSpawn on September 03, 2009, 12:50:16 pm

Lemme see if I still have pictures from her prom. :3

Ok lol

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #71 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:56:18 pm »

That was harder than I thought.
She does this stupid half fake smile thing when she feels awkward, and it looks really funny in pictures, but I found one with a real smile!!!

She's the one in the black dress.

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s217/Misbehayvn/Miranda%20Prom%20Pics/P1010369.jpg

Shadow · « **Reply #72 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:56:30 pm »

Benjamin, what a story! Geeze, ALWAYS keep badge colors in mind when flirting. XD That guy must have felt horrible.

If I wanted to try this it would be best on Monday, since I'll be Shadow that day, which is a female version LOL. It's also the costume I wear to the dances. So if you see a girl with red/black hair and "cat" ears, a black dress with a white patch of fur on it, big gloves, and crazy boots, that's me. XD Feel free to come over and say hi! :3

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #73 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:58:31 pm »

@ demon: ok thx i will keep an eye out for her

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #74 on:** September 03, 2009, 12:58:43 pm »

Shadow I'm going to come over and say Hi no dout!
You probley dont remember me,
but I got a picture with you last year when you where Matt.
I was in an awesome hot dark pink and black plaid skirt.
I'm in it again this year.

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #75 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:02:00 pm »

Quote from: Griff_the_dragoon on September 03, 2009, 12:58:31 pm

@ demon: ok thx i will keep an eye out for her

Haha, thanks. XD

Shadow · « **Reply #76 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:02:14 pm »

Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 03, 2009, 12:58:43 pm

Shadow I'm going to come over and say Hi no dout!
You probley dont remember me,
but I got a picture with you last year when you where Matt.
I was in an awesome hot dark pink and black plaid skirt.
I'm in it again this year.

My memory is horrible, I'm sorry. ;_; But thank you for taking a photo with me! X3 So yes, definitely come over and say hi if you see me again!

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #77 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:04:14 pm »

Quote from: Shadow on September 03, 2009, 01:02:14 pm

Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 03, 2009, 12:58:43 pm
Shadow I'm going to come over and say Hi no dout!
You probley dont remember me,
but I got a picture with you last year when you where Matt.
I was in an awesome hot dark pink and black plaid skirt.
I'm in it again this year.

My memory is horrible, I'm sorry. ;_; But thank you for taking a photo with me! X3 So yes, definitely come over and say hi if you see me again!

Haha.
I think my mom has the pictures somewhere.
=3
But of course.
You where an awesome Matt.
So your wearing your Shadow cosplay for the dance?
I'm whereing rainbow booty/short shorts (dont really know what there called)
and a black elastic top with a fender guitar (and maybe an amp on it too)
with FENDER written on the top..
Haha.
Maybe just a white tank top instead.
I dont know.
x3

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #78 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:05:09 pm »

Quote from: DemonSpawn on September 03, 2009, 01:02:00 pm

Quote from: Griff_the_dragoon on September 03, 2009, 12:58:31 pm
@ demon: ok thx i will keep an eye out for her
Haha, thanks. XD

Yup anytime

Darknight2433 · « **Reply #79 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:05:32 pm »

Quote from: DemonSpawn on September 03, 2009, 12:44:15 pm

LMAO if any of you see me with a Tifa, flirt with her, please!
It would entertain me much.
She's really pretty but my sister's all 'meh don't touch me' and the only boyfriend she ever had she broke up with because he wanted to hold her hand.
So plleeasseee! I really want to get her to socialize more, she's on the verge of becoming a cat lady. XD
She's 18 so, w/e. But keep in mind this is her first con, so don't scare her or I'll never get her to go with me ever again. XP

OHOH, can I join in?

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #80 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:06:32 pm »

Catch! You didnt come to the sleepover!
T__T
Oh well.
I stoll your number from Fallons phone.
xD

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #81 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:07:06 pm »

XDDDD Megan! Yes! Do it! XDDD
Though I have a feeling if yer all 'Well heeyy~' she'll just hide behind me. Which'll be awkward cause I'm so much shorter. ^.^;

Shadow · « **Reply #82 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:07:18 pm »

Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 03, 2009, 01:04:14 pm

Quote from: Shadow on September 03, 2009, 01:02:14 pm
Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 03, 2009, 12:58:43 pm
Shadow I'm going to come over and say Hi no dout!
You probley dont remember me,
but I got a picture with you last year when you where Matt.
I was in an awesome hot dark pink and black plaid skirt.
I'm in it again this year.

My memory is horrible, I'm sorry. ;_; But thank you for taking a photo with me! X3 So yes, definitely come over and say hi if you see me again!

Haha.
I think my mom has the pictures somewhere.
=3
But of course.
You where an awesome Matt.
So your wearing your Shadow cosplay for the dance?
I'm whereing rainbow booty/short shorts (dont really know what there called)
and a black elastic top with a fender guitar (and maybe an amp on it too)
with FENDER written on the top..
Haha.
Maybe just a white tank top instead.
I dont know.
x3

Aww thank you!! I think I'll actually just be wearing my Matt cosplay to the dance. :3 My poor Shadow boots can only take so much damage LOL. I'll keep an eye out for you!

CloudStrife32 · « **Reply #83 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:08:20 pm »

Demony! I'd like to see you sister try to hide behind you! xD

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #84 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:09:03 pm »

I thought you thought she was scary? XD

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #85 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:09:20 pm »

Catch we got this lol

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #86 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:10:24 pm »

Quote from: Shadow on September 03, 2009, 01:07:18 pm

Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 03, 2009, 01:04:14 pm
Quote from: Shadow on September 03, 2009, 01:02:14 pm
Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 03, 2009, 12:58:43 pm
Shadow I'm going to come over and say Hi no dout!
You probley dont remember me,
but I got a picture with you last year when you where Matt.
I was in an awesome hot dark pink and black plaid skirt.
I'm in it again this year.

My memory is horrible, I'm sorry. ;_; But thank you for taking a photo with me! X3 So yes, definitely come over and say hi if you see me again!

Haha.
I think my mom has the pictures somewhere.
=3
But of course.
You where an awesome Matt.
So your wearing your Shadow cosplay for the dance?
I'm whereing rainbow booty/short shorts (dont really know what there called)
and a black elastic top with a fender guitar (and maybe an amp on it too)
with FENDER written on the top..
Haha.
Maybe just a white tank top instead.
I dont know.
x3

Aww thank you!! I think I'll actually just be wearing my Matt cosplay to the dance. :3 My poor Shadow boots can only take so much damage LOL. I'll keep an eye out for you!

@Shadow: And I keep an eye out for you.

@Demon: For some reason I wanna do it too.
xD

Darknight2433 · « **Reply #87 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:10:39 pm »

Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 03, 2009, 01:06:32 pm

Catch! You didnt come to the sleepover!
T__T
Oh well.
I stoll your number from Fallons phone.
xD

I KNOW, I'M SO SORRY, I will come to another one someday, OR SOMETHING, I PROMISE! XD

AND YAY! Demony, I'm excited

totally, Griff. We're going to rock HARCORE.

CloudStrife32 · « **Reply #88 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:11:28 pm »

Demony, she's a little scary.
But at least she isn't annoying like Megan's sister. >.o;;

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #89 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:12:14 pm »

Lol, just get people to mob my sister, that's great.

You'll like her though, she's kinda scary sometimes but somewhere deep down there's a sense of humor.

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #90 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:12:50 pm »

Dude,
Im a ***** when Im pissed.
xD

Romo · « **Reply #91 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:13:05 pm »

'ey 'ey...can I join in Demony? xDDD

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #92 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:14:01 pm »

this is sweet i have a list of people to flirt with at the con

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #93 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:14:30 pm »

Sure sure come one come all. XD
This is gunna entertain me... a lot.

Darknight2433 · « **Reply #94 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:14:46 pm »

Quote from: Teddy_Bearxx on September 03, 2009, 01:12:50 pm

Dude,
Im a ***** when Im pissed.
xD

I'm sorry. ;0;

Romo · « **Reply #95 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:15:03 pm »

Yeah Megan, you better be sorry. > >

Shadow · « **Reply #96 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:15:20 pm »

Quote from: Griff_the_dragoon on September 03, 2009, 01:14:01 pm

this is sweet i have a list of people to flirt with at the con

That is amazing. XDD

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #97 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:16:29 pm »

I'm a natural flirt.
So I'll have no problem..
I just hope Ninja [Griff knows who]
isn't mad at me...
T__T

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #98 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:17:34 pm »

Oh speaking of ninja he wont be there this year so fear not

Teddy_Bearxx · « **Reply #99 on:** September 03, 2009, 01:19:11 pm »

He told me,
he was going with Mini-man.
Becasue Ethan said he can miss the wedding..

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Author Topic: Flirting at Cons... Inapproriate or AWESOME? 8D (Read 87445 times)