Soundninja:
I missed that little episode, but thanks for bringing the issue up.
It really is insulting, even if you're not LGBTQ, I would think. It's disgusting how many people, including friends of mine say that sort of thing. Then they usually get embarassed and apologize once I give them the 'Do you remember who you're talking to?' look, but they shouldn't say it in the first place. I don't really get offended personally by it, but it's still rude, so thank you.