Yeah, but honestly, most of the board here isn't behind anything I do. More often than not, they oppose what I do.
ADDENDUM: Check my signature; I can't do anything involving Kumoricon staff.
Personal choice or court order?
*shrugs* just remember to say "Hey, it would help if" or remember that this is the OP's project and recognize'em
in your sugestions "It would prolly help tofu out if that was done this way..."
That way it doesn't seem so personal. I think that is the biggest issue, you are so wanting to help you take it
all so personally. But when it is not really your fight, you have to remember who is really doing what. Otherwise
it feels to people like you are taking control/taking over. I know it's not your intention, but becoming so personally
invested that you start calling the shots has that effect on your tone, especially in a place like forums, where
tone is hard to read. Does that make sense? If you make your posts selfless, it'll increase your readership because
people wont feal attacked/pressured/over-ruled in their quests to do whatever they do.
But people are going to be mean sometimes, thats the way it is, and not everyone will like you on the boards,
thats life... I'm sure there are tons of people who don't like it when I but into arguments and try to act all fluffy
bunnies and rainbows... I bet they think I'm a faker! That WOULD make me sad, if I didn't have enough self worth
to light the entirety of the Portland metro-area (if lights could be powered by self worth) I always say a heap of
love for yourself with breakfast every morning is the way to stay full o smiles!
~Allykat
