I'm sorry to hear that it was not an enjoyable time for you and that Assault & Flattery is staff-only, which makes ZERO sense. Perhaps you can start threads on their forums?
Of note, this is the 1st year in several that Melissa Magnan did not run Programming (and the 1st in 5 years that there was no Creation Station, & yes, these are somewhat related, though finances were as influential). The good news is that the reason is that Melissa & her husband James had their first baby this summer! (A healthy boy.)
Were your concerns more with what was offered as Prog, what was not offered as Prog, or some of the logistics, overall atmosphere, cost, ??
Glad you're still planning to be epic for Bedtime Stories....whether or not I'll be there will vary with how hot it is and whether I have a cat sitter, but if I can be there, I will for sure not want to miss your performance