Author Topic: What makes a person attractive to you? (Read 87587 times)

reppy · « **Reply #300 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:05:39 am »

Quote from: ishpumalibu on August 19, 2010, 11:29:50 pm

Quote from: StarryShay on August 19, 2010, 11:23:08 pm
Well I believe that anything can happen, and so if you like a girl that's your friend, don't assume you'll always be friends!
DO SOMETHING TO MAKE HER LOVE YOUUUUU.
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xD

All I can say to that is... Never lose that optimism, its great!

'Round here, we just call her crazy. XD

Pots · « **Reply #301 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:06:55 am »

anyone who has a unicorn : )

(joking)

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #302 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:10:21 am »

Quote from: reppy on August 20, 2010, 12:05:39 am

Quote from: ishpumalibu on August 19, 2010, 11:29:50 pm
Quote from: StarryShay on August 19, 2010, 11:23:08 pm
Well I believe that anything can happen, and so if you like a girl that's your friend, don't assume you'll always be friends!
DO SOMETHING TO MAKE HER LOVE YOUUUUU.
[/end caps]
xD

All I can say to that is... Never lose that optimism, its great!

'Round here, we just call her crazy. XD

Crazy keeps you sane I hear...

StarryShay · « **Reply #303 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:11:13 am »

Quote from: reppy on August 20, 2010, 12:05:39 am

Quote from: ishpumalibu on August 19, 2010, 11:29:50 pm
Quote from: StarryShay on August 19, 2010, 11:23:08 pm
Well I believe that anything can happen, and so if you like a girl that's your friend, don't assume you'll always be friends!
DO SOMETHING TO MAKE HER LOVE YOUUUUU.
[/end caps]
xD

All I can say to that is... Never lose that optimism, its great!

'Round here, we just call her crazy. XD

Why're you such a bully? xD

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #304 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:12:47 am »

I could never date someone/be with someone who wasn't my friend. I don't want them to just be my 'significant other' but my friend too.

RoscoeTEHclam · « **Reply #305 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:47:11 am »

I think i stay friend-zoned all the time is caused by two different things:
1. unintentionally making you feel akward around me
2. i don't want to offend anybody and lose that friend

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #306 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:54:25 am »

Quote from: RoscoeTEHclam on August 20, 2010, 12:47:11 am

I think i stay friend-zoned all the time is caused by two different things:
1. unintentionally making you feel akward around me
2. i don't want to offend anybody and lose that friend

In that case, dont hold back so much. Let your awesomeness shine though. cant make an omlette without breaking a few eggs.

reppy · « **Reply #307 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:00:13 am »

Break some eggs, spill some milk, leave the toilet seat up .. general rebellious and anti-social behavior..

OK, sorry, that was uncalled for.. getting a little ridiculous here.. always, always put the seat back down.

TurboSaiyanJason · « **Reply #308 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:14:05 am »

True.
Back before I found Pai, I was afraid to break most of the eggs in a group just to find some friends. Eventually I learned to trust that if the group was bothered by anything I did, the ones who were truly open and friendly would understand and inform me. I started searching for the opportunities to comment or joke about a subject, and opened up more and more. In the end, I found someone on my own, who was so similar to me that we seemed a perfect match. But it took my crazy carefree fun side and some disappointments to get me to that point.

RoscoeTEHclam · « **Reply #309 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:19:22 am »

I just realized what is the most attractive thing i could think of would be if the girl told me she was interested and asked me out. that was one of my favorite things about my only girlfriend: she voiced the fact that she was interested in me

TL,DR: I'm a coward

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #310 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:25:11 am »

Quote from: RoscoeTEHclam on August 20, 2010, 01:19:22 am

I just realized what is the most attractive thing i could think of would be if the girl told me she was interested and asked me out. that was one of my favorite things about my only girlfriend: she voiced the fact that she was interested in me

TL,DR: I'm a coward

No anyone who can face their fears and flaws is no coward. Just Keep moving forward. A journey around the earth begins with one step.

TurboSaiyanJason · « **Reply #311 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:28:02 am »

Then as a shy hunter of love like I was, if you don't care who and what she looks like, wait and plan for the opportune moment. When someone (or that someone) is feeling down and you offer to help. Another approach is to slip a letter to her expressing what your heart wants to say without your lips jumbling your words, even mention that in your letter. Ex. "What words my heart wishes to express so true, that my lips may nervously stumble and mispronounce, are these..."

chelseahavoc · « **Reply #312 on:** August 20, 2010, 07:50:35 am »

D: to behonest.... telling a close friend you feel that way about them... is scary. as. hell. but when it turns out they feel the same way.... you float on cloud nine for weeks

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #313 on:** August 20, 2010, 08:16:39 am »

My problem atm is that other than the guy I was with this week, anyone else that I know likes me (or that I am interested in) are 'too old' for me. Which is soooo stupid. The good news is I turn 18 in threeeeeeeee more months.

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #314 on:** August 20, 2010, 08:37:42 am »

Go get em girl!
Every guy Ive dealt with before was my age or younger and it just doesnt work for me. I realize I need a man and not some little boy.

So once you hit your mark, go out there and do your best. Age is but a number, my dear. Just be careful you dont find a freak or a guy who stills looks upon age as a factor.

makichan · « **Reply #315 on:** August 20, 2010, 09:07:51 am »

I can see how being a friend might complicate moving further. I had a friend who liked me for a decent amount of time in high school and when he came out and told me, it totally took me by surprise and I didn't know how to handle it. We sort of drifted after that because it became awkward :<
I'm actually pretty oblivious to how people feel about me (as I, like many, am my own worst critic) so when someone comes right out and tells me I'm often not quite sure how to react (that is, unless if we never took the time to really know each other. I know how to handle those lol). If you're friends with someone that you want to start dating, my opinion is that you need to drop hints first, otherwise you'll stay in the friend category :/
Also, it's better to let the person at least consider the possibility of you two becoming more than friends before you come right out and say that you want to be with them. So, be courteous and drop hints (and, you know, GOOD hints... not creepy ones lol).

Dubaby · « **Reply #316 on:** August 20, 2010, 11:06:25 am »

My biggest issue that I've had with dating guys that I was already good friends with was always that once we actually started never dating they wouldn't treat me any different than they did before. They'd still just treat me like one of the guys, which is fine when we're hanging out, but if we're dating than I want to be treated like a girlfriend.

I've never really had an affectionate boyfriend, it's always bee nthe guys that I've just kind of "hung out" with and such that have treated me more like a girlfriend.

I've realized recently that I'm just terrible at flirting, and when a guy does hit on me or compliment me I get really embarrassed because I'm not really used to it. Once again I blame the string of non-affectionate boyfriends. lol.

reppy · « **Reply #317 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:02:42 pm »

Hehe. I'm super affectionate D: any girl I date better be willing to stomach all kind of sugary and sweet nicknames ^^;;

Mew*Haruko · « **Reply #318 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:23:59 pm »

Quote from: reppy on August 20, 2010, 12:02:42 pm

Hehe. I'm super affectionate D: any girl I date better be willing to stomach all kind of sugary and sweet nicknames ^^;;

HURHUR.
You are a gentleman.
Most guys these days have no respect for women. They call them: "Babe" and stuff. I mean...It's fine and all, but sometimes they say it with no feeling.
I hate it when guys say I'm 'Sexy'...Because I just hate it.
I love being called Beautiful and Gorgeous.
*sigh*

Soramunesanzun · « **Reply #319 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:01:16 pm »

Quote from: reppy on August 20, 2010, 12:02:42 pm

Hehe. I'm super affectionate D: any girl I date better be willing to stomach all kind of sugary and sweet nicknames ^^;;

GO GET A SEX CHANGE AND BE MY GIRLFRIEND <3

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #320 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:15:54 pm »

Quote from: Soramunesanzun on August 20, 2010, 01:01:16 pm

Quote from: reppy on August 20, 2010, 12:02:42 pm
Hehe. I'm super affectionate D: any girl I date better be willing to stomach all kind of sugary and sweet nicknames ^^;;

GO GET A SEX CHANGE AND BE MY GIRLFRIEND <3

Psh, or he can stay the same and I'll be his. ;P

It would be interesting to see people fighting over Reppy... We should tie him up at con and do a mock battle for him.
OMG! We could make people pay to fight~<3 Then all the money can go to charity and the winner gets a date with him. XD
But it has to be a mud fight cause those are sexier.

Soramunesanzun · « **Reply #321 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:26:40 pm »

GOOD IDEA. Only I would win, of course.

thesirensings · « **Reply #322 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:32:17 pm »

Quote from: Gryffinclaw Princess on August 20, 2010, 01:15:54 pm

Quote from: Soramunesanzun on August 20, 2010, 01:01:16 pm
Quote from: reppy on August 20, 2010, 12:02:42 pm
Hehe. I'm super affectionate D: any girl I date better be willing to stomach all kind of sugary and sweet nicknames ^^;;

GO GET A SEX CHANGE AND BE MY GIRLFRIEND <3

Psh, or he can stay the same and I'll be his. ;P

It would be interesting to see people fighting over Reppy... We should tie him up at con and do a mock battle for him.
OMG! We could make people pay to fight~<3 Then all the money can go to charity and the winner gets a date with him. XD
But it has to be a mud fight cause those are sexier.

I can't wait until reppy sees that post. xDDDDDDDDDDDD

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #323 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:42:17 pm »

Sora - Psh. We'll see about that. ;P

Siren - >.> Shhh....He'll never know.

Soramunesanzun · « **Reply #324 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:47:07 pm »

'NUFF SAID

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #325 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:55:42 pm »

Soramunesanzun · « **Reply #326 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:58:42 pm »

O I C THIS IS AN UMBRIDGE-OFF THEN

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #327 on:** August 20, 2010, 02:00:50 pm »

Do we need to take this to messages, little miss?
Cause we can so go there.

Soramunesanzun · « **Reply #328 on:** August 20, 2010, 02:09:11 pm »

LETS GO THEN

Dubaby · « **Reply #329 on:** August 20, 2010, 02:38:13 pm »

Prepare yourselves for battle...

reppy · « **Reply #330 on:** August 20, 2010, 03:10:14 pm »

Weird. I was reading through this thread, and I thought I may have seen "reppy" mentioned, but the text was so obscured by a line, almost as if it it had been "striked" out", and so I couldn't decipher it. It must have just been my imagination. ^^;;

Soramunesanzun · « **Reply #331 on:** August 20, 2010, 03:13:26 pm »

Quote from: reppy on August 20, 2010, 03:10:14 pm

Weird. I was reading through this thread, and I thought I may have seen "reppy" mentioned, but the text was so obscured by a line, almost as if it it had been "striked" out", and so I couldn't decipher it. It must have just been my imagination. ^^;;

WE LOVE YOU, REPPY.
Also, see that sexy woman up there? YOU SHOULD COSPLAY HER

reppy · « **Reply #332 on:** August 20, 2010, 03:28:51 pm »

You sure that isn't already me?

thesirensings · « **Reply #333 on:** August 20, 2010, 04:36:29 pm »

He's got a point. The resemblance is striking.

reppy · « **Reply #334 on:** August 20, 2010, 04:47:21 pm »

You know what's funny? I was talking to DemonSpawn on MSN and she said that character totally reminded her of me.

She said something along the lines of, "He just said 'I only eat falcon eggs, rocks, and protein shakes.' And he's wearing a dress."

thesirensings · « **Reply #335 on:** August 20, 2010, 05:09:02 pm »

So you eat rocks? xD

reppy · « **Reply #336 on:** August 20, 2010, 05:40:06 pm »

Good source of minerals. A bit rough on the ol' chompers, but hey, I figure I'll need dentures some day eventually.

camname21 · « **Reply #337 on:** August 20, 2010, 10:29:08 pm »

Quote from: Pots on August 20, 2010, 12:06:55 am

anyone who has a unicorn : )

(joking)

Id you have a white horse and cosplay him as a unicorn does it count? Why does everyone want a real one when they KNOW they can just genetically modify one themselves in 10 years, shesh.

On a counter note, the must like cats. Or at the vary least not have a burning hatred of them.

Kagome219 · « **Reply #338 on:** August 21, 2010, 03:11:39 pm »

Oh, another thing that I find attractive is someone who is eco-friendly. (And being vegetarian/vegan is also a plus~ ;3)

soundninja12 · « **Reply #339 on:** August 21, 2010, 03:22:09 pm »

Them vegans and their vegan powers, gets me every time!
I don't eat meat, and I like people who respect that. Yup yup!

thesirensings · « **Reply #340 on:** August 21, 2010, 03:26:21 pm »

I really like when a person isn't afraid to be silly.

StarryShay · « **Reply #341 on:** August 21, 2010, 04:23:10 pm »

Someone who won't flirt with other girls while dating me. :<
I get jealous easily... ;^;

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #342 on:** August 21, 2010, 04:27:01 pm »

I read that and went, "Awwwwwww."
[/huggles Shay] Any guy who flirts while with you is a loser.

StarryShay · « **Reply #343 on:** August 21, 2010, 04:29:44 pm »

Thankssss Krissssss. ; o ;
I'm just afraid that I'd get boring and he'd move on easily, pfff.

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #344 on:** August 21, 2010, 04:33:21 pm »

But Shay, if a guy leaves you because of that reason then he's not the guy for you.
I know it will be hard, but don't get too upset, okay? Any guy like that is a jerk and not worth your time or your love.
So though you may have a few jerks in your life, sooner or later you'll find the guy who is perfect for you and cares about you no matter what happens.

So when a guy say's your boring, just remember that he must not be worth the time.
Because a true love will never get bored with you. Just sitting alone with you and watching TV or even just snuggling together in silence should be enough for him to be happy that he has you.
You aren't in a relationship to entertain him but to love him for how he is and for him to return the favor.

StarryShay · « **Reply #345 on:** August 21, 2010, 04:36:20 pm »

;O; -Glomps Gryff-
That's such a kind and sweet thing to say.
Thank you so very much.
I suppose that when I do get in a relationship I'll understand more of what you're saying, because right now the thought of not entertaining someone and just being able to relax seems too good to be true.

Erm, sorry for getting off topic btw. xD

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #346 on:** August 21, 2010, 04:53:17 pm »

Eeep! Sorry. ^^; I tend to make topics drift from the subject. Eheheh....

But I would totally like a guy exactly as I described. ;P So it's not too off topic.
I'm attracted to guys who wouldn't mind just laying on the bed or a couch and watching anime or a movie.
A lot of people think movie dates are boring but I think they would be fun. Because it shows a guy doesn't need to talk or actually do anything to have fun with you. ^^

But yeah. [/huggles Shay] Just keep your head up, okay? ^^

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #347 on:** August 21, 2010, 04:59:11 pm »

Quote from: Gryffinclaw Princess on August 21, 2010, 04:53:17 pm

Eeep! Sorry. ^^; I tend to make topics drift from the subject. Eheheh....

But I would totally like a guy exactly as I described. ;P So it's not too off topic.
I'm attracted to guys who wouldn't mind just laying on the bed or a couch and watching anime or a movie.
A lot of people think movie dates are boring but I think they would be fun. Because it shows a guy doesn't need to talk or actually do anything to have fun with you. ^^

But yeah. [/huggles Shay] Just keep your head up, okay? ^^

movie dates are fun, but not the best for stimulating conversation, or learning about the other person...

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #348 on:** August 21, 2010, 05:11:19 pm »

So all dates have to be about conversation and learning about someone via voice?
If I know the person, I don't see why not.
Plus, if you do something before or after, you can talk then.
I just don't think dates should be all about talking.

I finally went on my first date not too long ago and the guy talked for 3 hours straight while we sat at an ice cream parlor.
I am semi-lactose intolerant so I can only eat a little bit of ice cream before I get sick and I had to sit around the stuff for three hours listening to him gab on about his Eagle Scout badges, how his family is so rich, and all his troubles as a child. And he even knew I can't eat a lot of ice cream before he took me there.

So the idea of a date where it's quiet seems pretty nice.
I don't like guys who just talk and talk and don't let you get a word in edge wise.
Or a guy who doesn't take how you feel into consideration...

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #349 on:** August 21, 2010, 05:16:20 pm »

I didn't say that, i merely stated what isnt as good about them. Also, if you date those kinds of guys you mentioned the date will be lame no matter what you do.

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Author Topic: What makes a person attractive to you? (Read 87587 times)