Author Topic: What makes a person attractive to you? (Read 87551 times)

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #350 on:** August 21, 2010, 05:23:44 pm »

I don't... Like I said, it was my first ever date.
I met him at the boat races while I was working. We were working the Starting Line Club together and he seemed nice so I agreed to go on a date.
It...was terrible. Not only did he never shut up but he decided on his own I was his girlfriend from that moment on and I had to confront him about it.
I don't like guys like that at all. I felt like Haruhi the whole date as my mind turned to what a rich bastard he was.

But I figured I would get to know him better on a date when we weren't both working. That's what dates are supposed to be for after all, right?
Yeah...I learned I don't want to deal with him anymore. Even though everything that happened and telling him to leave me alone, he still keeps calling me and leaving me messages on my phone and sending me messages on facebook. He even got our mutual friend to pester me about what's going on with my life. I feel stalked... ; 3; [/hides in closet]

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #351 on:** August 21, 2010, 05:30:11 pm »

Quote from: Gryffinclaw Princess on August 21, 2010, 05:23:44 pm

I don't... Like I said, it was my first ever date.
I met him at the boat races while I was working. We were working the Starting Line Club together and he seemed nice so I agreed to go on a date.
It...was terrible. Not only did he never shut up but he decided on his own I was his girlfriend from that moment on and I had to confront him about it.
I don't like guys like that at all. I felt like Haruhi the whole date as my mind turned to what a rich bastard he was.

But I figured I would get to know him better on a date when we weren't both working. That's what dates are supposed to be for after all, right?
Yeah...I learned I don't want to deal with him anymore. Even though everything that happened and telling him to leave me alone, he still keeps calling me and leaving me messages on my phone and sending me messages on facebook. He even got our mutual friend to pester me about what's going on with my life. I feel stalked... ; 3; [/hides in closet]

Sorry to hear that, you should probably warn him you will go to the police if he doesnt leave you alone. Sadly This probably wont be the last guy you have stalk you... Its a cute girl curse that I hear about more and more.

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #352 on:** August 21, 2010, 06:49:01 pm »

i just want sum body to like me for me. I am jealus alot though. And the fact that me bi sends most of the guys runin ;.;

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #353 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:01:16 pm »

Are you serious, every guy I have known thinks bi girls are awesome...

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #354 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:07:47 pm »

we are totaly awesome! But some ppl hav difrent views and i can respect that. But maybe i cant keep a guy or a girl is cuz i ... Um. .. Wouldnt give my first kiss up.

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #355 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:15:41 pm »

Well, if it makes you feel better, I didn't kiss my first time until I was 18. But I was embarrassed back then, and afraid to be bad at kissing.

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #356 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:21:00 pm »

il be 18 next year. And just in time for next yrs k con. But stil i realy think thats why i cant get or keep a some one

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #357 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:25:22 pm »

Probably, I mean at that age it is even easier to get caught up on the physical.

soundninja12 · « **Reply #358 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:26:15 pm »

I felt like a loser for getting my first kiss this year.
I know getting a first kiss your Freshman year isn't a bad thing, but dating someone for 8 months and only getting 1 kiss was... Lame.
I was scared that I'd be bad at it, but I don't think it matters to her. Not at all. She called me cute and innocent when she found out she was my first kiss... I guess that's what I get for dating someone 3 1/2 years older than me ><

StarryShay · « **Reply #359 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:27:34 pm »

Shay hasn't had her first kiss yet, so good job Katie! c:

Darknight2433 · « **Reply #360 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:28:28 pm »

I HEARD PICS EXIST, I WILL SEE THEN, OFF TO ANGELICA

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #361 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:33:12 pm »

and tha fact that i havent gone a date and iv been with 5 ppl for like a month each

soundninja12 · « **Reply #362 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:34:37 pm »

Megan: one is on dA xD

McKenzie:
That's lame. I was with my best friend for a week once. He was a horrible boyfriend xD

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #363 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:38:16 pm »

Just dont fret over it, youre young! Have Fun, theres plenty of time for kissing later.

Gryffinclaw Princess · « **Reply #364 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:43:33 pm »

At least you guys had innocent first kisses. :/ Mine was...bad...
My "friends" had just set me up with some guy I never met before. (pretty much all my relationships were set up by classmates...as well as all my dates to school dances.)
And it was after school hours before theatre practice and I was going to go grab a soda from a machine upstairs.
So, as I was walking up the stairs this guy spins me around, introduces himself to me as my "new boyfriend," pins me to the wall, and sticks his tongue down my throat. My mouth was raped. D8 He then proceeded to have a girl try and kiss me in the basement of the school when I was digging for a prop because he wanted to make sure I was straight.
This relationship, obviously, did not last long at all.

My classmates just loved to set me up with freaks apparently. But I was too pathetic to ever flirt with any guys I liked and I felt like it would be mean to say no to people. I figured people deserved a chance and ended up being the one who always got in bad situations because of it.
My longest relationship so far has been...5...months...? I think...?
Anyways, I've never broken up with a guy myself. They find out I'm too much to handle or don't like something about me and I get dumped.
But oh well. [/shrug] I've decided I don't have to give people a chance and I can be as picky as I want to be because I deserve it by now. D<

So I will only go for guys who I have an interest in all on my own and I'm going to be a picky little bitch on which guys I flirt with because I don't want to deal with any more of the drama crap that high school tossed my way.

tl;dr
Be picky and don't let classmates set you up with relationships.
Go for who you want to go for and don't be like me. It's not mean to say 'no' to people.

soundninja12 · « **Reply #365 on:** August 21, 2010, 07:47:07 pm »

Dude... Lame. I would kick someone so hard in the genitals they would never ever have kids D:

Oh! And McKenzie:
I think you're really pretty, and I genuinely don't understand why you haven't been kissed o.o

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #366 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:02:18 pm »

im just too shy and to fat

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #367 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:03:52 pm »

Quote from: Gryffinclaw Princess on August 21, 2010, 07:43:33 pm

At least you guys had innocent first kisses. :/ Mine was...bad...
My "friends" had just set me up with some guy I never met before. (pretty much all my relationships were set up by classmates...as well as all my dates to school dances.)
And it was after school hours before theatre practice and I was going to go grab a soda from a machine upstairs.
So, as I was walking up the stairs this guy spins me around, introduces himself to me as my "new boyfriend," pins me to the wall, and sticks his tongue down my throat. My mouth was raped. D8 He then proceeded to have a girl try and kiss me in the basement of the school when I was digging for a prop because he wanted to make sure I was straight.
This relationship, obviously, did not last long at all.

My classmates just loved to set me up with freaks apparently. But I was too pathetic to ever flirt with any guys I liked and I felt like it would be mean to say no to people. I figured people deserved a chance and ended up being the one who always got in bad situations because of it.
My longest relationship so far has been...5...months...? I think...?
Anyways, I've never broken up with a guy myself. They find out I'm too much to handle or don't like something about me and I get dumped.
But oh well. [/shrug] I've decided I don't have to give people a chance and I can be as picky as I want to be because I deserve it by now. D<

So I will only go for guys who I have an interest in all on my own and I'm going to be a picky little bitch on which guys I flirt with because I don't want to deal with any more of the drama crap that high school tossed my way.

tl;dr
Be picky and don't let classmates set you up with relationships.
Go for who you want to go for and don't be like me. It's not mean to say 'no' to people.

Wow that is intense. I hate to know this kind of stuff happens.

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #368 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:06:14 pm »

Quote from: Nando-KiT on August 21, 2010, 08:02:18 pm

im just too shy and to fat

Bah! Absurd!

chelseahavoc · « **Reply #369 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:15:47 pm »

<.< my first kiss was after a highschool dance with my 2nd boyfriend (3.5 months into the relationship) in the rain n.n;;;

thesirensings · « **Reply #370 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:18:29 pm »

I had a friend set me up once. He asked to be my boyfriend, and I couldn't think of a reason to say no. He seemed nice enough. Then two days later he was all, "We can has sex nao? 8D"

DDDDDDDD<<<<< NEVER LETTING SOMEONE SET ME UP AGAIN.

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #371 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:20:13 pm »

cute but i is fat!

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #372 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:29:38 pm »

My first kiss... She had told me she wanted it to catch her by surprise.
8 months into the relationship... Midnight picnic under the stars, dancing under the stars
And finally i turned away briefly to remove my glasses turned back to kiss her,
I heard her squeal, then opened my eyes to see my quick movement had scared her out of place, and I barely kissed her lips, skimmed them, I I was now bent over enough it caused me to tumble down the hill.
We dated for 4 more months but that still makes me laugh.

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #373 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:34:53 pm »

>w< how cute. I think i like to hav mine like that too. It must be easier

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #374 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:41:18 pm »

Well, it isn't often you literally fall head over heels for a girl haha

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #375 on:** August 21, 2010, 08:50:59 pm »

weeelll i have major crushs on 3 girls. But they dont know >w>

camname21 · « **Reply #376 on:** August 21, 2010, 09:48:07 pm »

First kiss with a boyfriend/girlfriend is one thing, but to wait till you are 14 or older is insane! I remember being kissed when I was as young as 10, maybe 8 even. Kissing back then had sparks, but at the same time, it was just innocent fun with no care for liking the other person more then as friends. Its to bad people don't like to kiss just because, once they get older. To many people let the excitement of life drain away as they age. If you are going to be attractive, you need to have that sparkle around you when we talk about stuff we like.

chelseahavoc · « **Reply #377 on:** August 21, 2010, 09:51:27 pm »

i actualy think waiting till your in your teens is way magical..... then again i didnt date til i was in highschool so...

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #378 on:** August 21, 2010, 09:56:38 pm »

me first boyfriend was in middle skool

camname21 · « **Reply #379 on:** August 21, 2010, 10:19:17 pm »

middle school dating was SO weird. Girls changing their minds every 3 days was like.. ya... why bother. Boys were not much better, but for other reasons.

soundninja12 · « **Reply #380 on:** August 21, 2010, 10:23:09 pm »

Dude, I dated one guy in middle school, and it was my best friend ><
We lasted a week, decided it was stupid, and stopped dating.
And when I had a crush on someone in middle school, it lasted at least a year. One of them lasted all 3.

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #381 on:** August 21, 2010, 10:38:43 pm »

im just tierd of bein single

StarryShay · « **Reply #382 on:** August 21, 2010, 10:38:48 pm »

I've never dated anyone, hmmmm.

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #383 on:** August 21, 2010, 10:53:38 pm »

waa? Wat do u do for fun then?

StarryShay · « **Reply #384 on:** August 21, 2010, 10:56:39 pm »

I...um...I read manga and sew stuff.... > o > ;;

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #385 on:** August 21, 2010, 10:58:20 pm »

-glomps-

NeonFoxRocks · « **Reply #386 on:** August 22, 2010, 03:08:11 am »

I never had my first girlfriend/kiss till i was like 18 or 19, maybe it was because I always moved around never made friends, or because I always preferred to play games instead of the stupid highschool relationship crap (it's my opinion all I ever hear about is relations beginning and ending in week spans)

Dubaby · « **Reply #387 on:** August 22, 2010, 08:40:17 am »

My first real kiss got stolen when I was 15.... I was at a drama after party when everyone started playing spin-the-bottle. They asked if I wanted to play and eventually they found out I had never been kissed before. The older kids decided to take it upon themselves to "fix" the problem, and held a little mini-competition between three of the guys and a girl to see who got to claim my first kiss.... I thought they were joking until the girl won and next thing I know I've got the senior Homecoming Queen kissing me.

It was hilarious... It actually got me to stop being so shy about the whole "kissing" thing and I became a bit of a "spin-the-bottle" addict after that. I just find it funny that my first kiss was with a chick when I'm not even the slightest bit attracted to women. lmao. I kissed my first guy that night too so it works out. lol.

Soramunesanzun · « **Reply #388 on:** August 22, 2010, 11:39:09 am »

BOOOO /never been kissed

/too old for this

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #389 on:** August 22, 2010, 11:43:13 am »

Quote from: Soramunesanzun on August 22, 2010, 11:39:09 am

BOOOO /never been kissed

/too old for this

What?

Kagome219 · « **Reply #390 on:** August 22, 2010, 02:49:54 pm »

Middle school dating is pointless. No one is old enough to understand emotional attachment. I'm sixteen years old and wish I had waited until now to start dating. The vast majority of people I know have matured [at least somewhat].

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #391 on:** August 22, 2010, 03:33:45 pm »

I don't see why people get embarrased about the fact that they haven't kissed anybody. I'm saving that and I'm not ashamed of that fact at all.

I'm not comfortable with other people's spit so if I'm gunna kiss anyone I'm gunna make damn sure I like them a LOT.

chelseahavoc · « **Reply #392 on:** August 22, 2010, 04:17:56 pm »

i have so much respect for you deamony

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #393 on:** August 22, 2010, 04:20:06 pm »

Thanks Chelsea.

StarryShay · « **Reply #394 on:** August 22, 2010, 04:25:09 pm »

I love you Mommy! > u <
Good job for standing up for what you believe innnnn. ♥

NeonFoxRocks · « **Reply #395 on:** August 22, 2010, 08:19:30 pm »

I kinda feel like relationships are something you get addicted to, so if you've never been in a relationship it's not a big thing, but once you've had that rush of attraction it's something you kinda want to happen again.... So I guess the message is, if you haven't been in a relationship, rock on! Play video games and such like there is no tomorrow! relationships usually end up in a downer anyway =P

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #396 on:** August 22, 2010, 08:24:49 pm »

Quote from: NeonFoxRocks on August 22, 2010, 08:19:30 pm

I kinda feel like relationships are something you get addicted to, so if you've never been in a relationship it's not a big thing, but once you've had that rush of attraction it's something you kinda want to happen again.... So I guess the message is, if you haven't been in a relationship, rock on! Play video games and such like there is no tomorrow! relationships usually end up in a downer anyway =P

I think this is true somewhat. But I think relationships ending doesnt have to be negative.

DemonSpawn · « **Reply #397 on:** August 22, 2010, 08:52:27 pm »

For me, the attraction fades too quickly, and usually the other person involved is still way too attached, so I feel disconneccted and they get clingy, and I dislike clingy. So I like being single sometimes, I like my space. I like dating, dating is fun, but being in a relationship is difficult.

ishpumalibu · « **Reply #398 on:** August 22, 2010, 09:00:38 pm »

Well sadly the person who cares the least holds the power as a general rule.

Nando-KiT · « **Reply #399 on:** August 22, 2010, 10:30:03 pm »

i guess i loose intrest in the person if nothin happens.

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Author Topic: What makes a person attractive to you? (Read 87551 times)