What makes a person attractive to you?

[makichan]

I had my first boyfriend in 5th grade, if you could even call that a relationship lol. Basically all we did was pass notes in class, giggle, hold hands, and trade Pokemon cards.
My first kiss was taken at 18 but I guess it wasn't really taken because I kissed him. I'm happy that I waited though :3
My advice is to move at your own pace. There's certainly no need to rush things, especially when you could end up regretting it.

[soundninja12]

I do agree with moving at your own pace. I had a girl tell me that my girlfriend was going to break up with me for not being ballsy enough to kiss her. I explained to her, in a friendly but stern manner, that my girlfriend loves me, and whether or not I have the guts to kiss her or not doesn't matter. Then she called me a dyke and walked away >:
But still, I think I got my point across!

[jaybug]

I'm glad you have enough self-esteem to have been able to do that soundy. And women wonder why guys fight.

[Dubaby]

I do agree with moving at your own pace. I had a girl tell me that my girlfriend was going to break up with me for not being ballsy enough to kiss her. I explained to her, in a friendly but stern manner, that my girlfriend loves me, and whether or not I have the guts to kiss her or not doesn't matter. Then she called me a dyke and walked away >:
But still, I think I got my point across!

and this is the point where me and said girl would have a "chat" about manners.... Seriously when I hear things like this it makes me rage.

[soundninja12]

It's all good. She got what she deserved in the end (the guy that she really liked, happened to be a good friend of mine. He know thinks she's a homophobic jerk and won't even go near her)
^^
Confidence in myself is just one of the things I have a little too much of xD

[jaybug]

I feel as if I aught you well young Jedi. lol I guess you aren't 13 anymore either huh? ah hahahahahhahaq cough cough

[soundninja12]

xP Nope
I'm going in to my sophomore year! Not a baby anymore... A toddler xD
I always seem to like people that are older than me. My therapist says it is because I am "smarter and more socially mature than most people your (my) age" >>

[jaybug]

smarter and more socially mature than most people

That's a good feature to find in someone.

Having them not complain over every little thing, especially when honesty is asked, called for is not a trait I look for.

[ishpumalibu]

a girl who can deal with my corny princess brideness "death cannot stop true love, it can only delay it." no but seriously, I can get overly affectionate. Bleh.

[Higuma]

Someone who can laugh all the time even during a bad situation.

[Nando-KiT]

somebody whos not afraid to take first steps in the reationship. Like a leader of some sort

[tarutaru]

i like fun sized girls with lots of energy!

[camname21]

Someone that will discus why you screwed up before they instantly hate you.  Being unfamiliar with someone's personality shouldn't mean you fail forever to get to know each other.

[Nando-KiT]

has difrent tasts in diffrent things.

[Dubaby]

I find it insanely attractive when a guy is able to say what is on his mind. Now this isn't the same as not having a filter for what is decent and indecent to say mind you, but if a guy can make it clear what he does or doesn't want in a situation it just makes having a lucrative relationship easier.

I also instantly respect a person more when they are able to say how they feel without worrying if it's seen as "cool" or "normal" by other people. I don't want to be with someone who is going to compromise their views just to please other people. It kind of ties into my whole attraction to confidence thing. =]

[beast]

Gotta have suspenders.

[makichan]

I find it insanely attractive when a guy is able to say what is on his mind. Now this isn't the same as not having a filter for what is decent and indecent to say mind you, but if a guy can make it clear what he does or doesn't want in a situation it just makes having a lucrative relationship easier.

I also instantly respect a person more when they are able to say how they feel without worrying if it's seen as "cool" or "normal" by other people. I don't want to be with someone who is going to compromise their views just to please other people. It kind of ties into my whole attraction to confidence thing. =]

I agree.

Gotta have suspenders.

I double agree. I had this conversation with a large group of friends. Why aren't more people wearing them? :x

[jaybug]

Someone that will discus why you screwed up before they instantly hate you.  Being unfamiliar with someone's personality shouldn't mean you fail forever to get to know each other.

Shouldn't but that is usually how it goes. At least for us old geezers. "There are plenty of fish in the sea" is what is used to make everyone that is not utterly perfect upon first glance, disposable, expendable, not worth the time of day.

[Black~Rose]

Someone who won't flirt with other girls while dating me. :<
I get jealous easily... ;^;

Its rude for boyfriends to flirt with other girls in front of their girlfriends in general =p I don't usually get jealous. Its funny cuz my boyfriend told me about his ex who is also his sisters friend. She and him are friends too and I know he absolutely loves me but I get this funny twinge of territorial jealousy when she's around o.o I never act rude towards her or anything it just feels odd.

[Nando-KiT]

some one who enjoys the wonderful world of yao.... I mean sugar

[makichan]

Someone who won't flirt with other girls while dating me. :<
I get jealous easily... ;^;

Its rude for boyfriends to flirt with other girls in front of their girlfriends in general =p I don't usually get jealous. Its funny cuz my boyfriend told me about his ex who is also his sisters friend. She and him are friends too and I know he absolutely loves me but I get this funny twinge of territorial jealousy when she's around o.o I never act rude towards her or anything it just feels odd.

I think I know what you mean ^^;
It is an odd feeling.

[Black~Rose]

Someone who won't flirt with other girls while dating me. :<
I get jealous easily... ;^;

Its rude for boyfriends to flirt with other girls in front of their girlfriends in general =p I don't usually get jealous. Its funny cuz my boyfriend told me about his ex who is also his sisters friend. She and him are friends too and I know he absolutely loves me but I get this funny twinge of territorial jealousy when she's around o.o I never act rude towards her or anything it just feels odd.

I think I know what you mean ^^;
It is an odd feeling.

yeah and its not a very pretty one either. I tend to hug him more when that happens

[ishpumalibu]

Someone who won't flirt with other girls while dating me. :<
I get jealous easily... ;^;

Its rude for boyfriends to flirt with other girls in front of their girlfriends in general =p I don't usually get jealous. Its funny cuz my boyfriend told me about his ex who is also his sisters friend. She and him are friends too and I know he absolutely loves me but I get this funny twinge of territorial jealousy when she's around o.o I never act rude towards her or anything it just feels odd.

I think I know what you mean ^^;
It is an odd feeling.

yeah and its not a very pretty one either. I tend to hug him more when that happens

I love flirting, even jokingly using corny pickup lines, but once i'm with someone other girls are not even girls to me.

[Black~Rose]

Someone who won't flirt with other girls while dating me. :<
I get jealous easily... ;^;

Its rude for boyfriends to flirt with other girls in front of their girlfriends in general =p I don't usually get jealous. Its funny cuz my boyfriend told me about his ex who is also his sisters friend. She and him are friends too and I know he absolutely loves me but I get this funny twinge of territorial jealousy when she's around o.o I never act rude towards her or anything it just feels odd.

I think I know what you mean ^^;
It is an odd feeling.

yeah and its not a very pretty one either. I tend to hug him more when that happens

I love flirting, even jokingly using corny pickup lines, but once i'm with someone other girls are not even girls to me.

lol thats a good way to be

[ishpumalibu]

Meh,  I think i'm too old for a new relationship though.

[Soramunesanzun]

You are never too old for a relationship, new or old!

[ishpumalibu]

Gah, I think I may be an exception, but maybe you are correct.

[Fuyuko]

Well, it may not seem like it but I'm so full of affection that whenever someone I like (either friend or admirer) shows or gives me a loving gesture, I feel like I'm going to burst out of bliss...
So, I find that someone who isn't afraid of expressing their genuine affection to someone they really like is something attractive. =^_^=

[ishpumalibu]

Well, it may not seem like it but I'm so full of affection that whenever someone I like (either friend or admirer) shows or gives me a loving gesture, I feel like I'm going to burst out of bliss...
So, I find that someone who isn't afraid of expressing their genuine affection to someone they really like is something attractive. =^_^=

That is cool, I personally find I have an aversion to physical affection, and I blush a lot.

[StarryShay]

Somebody that looks like this please :

Hurdur that series is my latest addiction.

Seriously though, as far as physical appearance, I like dark hair and glasses lately, ho ho ho.

[reppy]

Well, it may not seem like it but I'm so full of affection that whenever someone I like (either friend or admirer) shows or gives me a loving gesture, I feel like I'm going to burst out of bliss...
So, I find that someone who isn't afraid of expressing their genuine affection to someone they really like is something attractive. =^_^=

I'm the same way. I dunno, when someone looks into my eyes even if it's for the thousandth time, my heart races and I melt like it was the first time. Actually, I think it gets worse. D:  I'm also a sucker for cute names and stuff D: *omgblush*

Course, I also love to give the same back, if not more, sooooooo whoever I date better be able to deal with it xD also, they better have a good texting package coz I also like to give/receive texts of affection at random times

Agghhhhh xD *runs away and hides*

[Nando-KiT]

^its almost scary that its about the same with me. And i lovers to tex >w<

[Soramunesanzun]

OMG SAME HERE Y'ALL. I adore cuddling and random texts and just everything <3

[StarryShay]

This thread makes me want a boyfriend. >:l
TOO BAD HIGHSCHOOL BOYS ARE JUST ANNOYING AND IMMATURE. D:

[Nando-KiT]

thats why i gave up on them

[ishpumalibu]

Haha, all guys are immature, we just apply that immaturity in different aspects of life as we age.

[Fuyuko]

@Reppy: ... *tries to keep from squee'ing*
But yeah, I totally hear you on cherishing those simple, barely noticable moments that make your heart go "doki doki", tehe. x3

Except it's difficult for me to express affection cuz I haven't had a friend or special someone close/comfortable enough to share that with... It doesn't feel natural for me; so that's something I need to practice on. This is something I recently found out about myself too. ^_^;

[Nando-KiT]

aw

[StarryShay]

@Reppy: ... *tries to keep from squee'ing*
But yeah, I totally hear you on cherishing those simple, barely noticable moments that make your heart go "doki doki", tehe. x3

Except it's difficult for me to express affection cuz I haven't had a friend or special someone close/comfortable enough to share that with... It doesn't feel natural for me; so that's something I need to practice on. This is something I recently found out about myself too. ^_^;

Same here. :<
I don't even feel affection towards my parents or friend. ;^;

[Soramunesanzun]

@shay- Just become a lesbian! Girls are better 8D

I would date youuu.

[Fuyuko]

@Shay: *pat pat* But that doesn't mean you don't love them, right? I sometimes feel guilty for not returning affection to my mom who is like, the total opposite and loves on me like crazy. There are times when I feel so spoiled and undeserving of so much of something that I can't even give back without feeling awkward about it. My friends are a different story since I'm more at ease when showing a bit affection but you know what I mean, right? (Hopefully?) ;w;

[Nando-KiT]

i would give you a try too

[StarryShay]

Sora - . . . . . . . . . . o x o -Admires your straight forward'ness-

I don't think that's something that somebody can just do, right? xD


Fuyuko - I know exactly what you mean. ; u ;
And I probably love them...I just can't really feel it. >>;
I think I sort've locked up my emotions in a chest and threw it into the ocean a while ago. o.o;
But thank you for sharing all that with me. > u <

[DemonSpawn]

@Reppy: ... *tries to keep from squee'ing*
But yeah, I totally hear you on cherishing those simple, barely noticable moments that make your heart go "doki doki", tehe. x3

Except it's difficult for me to express affection cuz I haven't had a friend or special someone close/comfortable enough to share that with... It doesn't feel natural for me; so that's something I need to practice on. This is something I recently found out about myself too. ^_^;

Same here. :<
I don't even feel affection towards my parents or friend. ;^;

W-w-what? T~T

[Nando-KiT]

X3

[StarryShay]

@Reppy: ... *tries to keep from squee'ing*
But yeah, I totally hear you on cherishing those simple, barely noticable moments that make your heart go "doki doki", tehe. x3

Except it's difficult for me to express affection cuz I haven't had a friend or special someone close/comfortable enough to share that with... It doesn't feel natural for me; so that's something I need to practice on. This is something I recently found out about myself too. ^_^;

Same here. :<
I don't even feel affection towards my parents or friend. ;^;

W-w-what? T~T

NO I'M NOT SAYING THAT I DON'T LOVE YOU MOMMY,
It's just that I am a very strange person. ; o ;
PLEASE DO NOT DISOWN MEEEEEE.
I'LL DO MY CHOOOOOORE.
-Sobs- ' - '

[Fuyuko]

@Shay: *GASP* I believe that's where I last stored my emotions too! So that's where they went... OAO
Oh and you're welcome. It feels good sharing those sort of things with someone who can relate. ^w^

[DemonSpawn]

Okay, Shay, I'll let it go this time. X3

[StarryShay]

Fuyu - Me and you should go scuba diving sometime to look for them! ' o '

Mommy - ; ^ ;

[Nando-KiT]

can make any boren day an awesome day