Would you like the wig shorter then it is currently? I'm good at style wigs with gel but no good at cutting them. Mei Long off the forums cuts all of my wigs for me so if you did need it shorter I could do it around a time that he is coming to my house and he could cut some bits off and I could give him some money from the commission for that.
As for dying, it would be about $9 in supplies, how much dying would be would depend on if it is heat resistant or not. Do you know or do you still have the link to the ebay page? Let me know. It shouldn't be more then like, $10 though, since it's a really light color.
And could you give me a clearer picture on how you want it styled? There's a lot of glare going on in that one.