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(the reason why your friend was not accepted into that tea party, is because it was a White-tie event that Novala [a lolita celebrity, wote Kamikaze girls (shimatsuma monotagari)] was in attendance at and everyone had to meet a certain dress code. That tea party's dress code shouldn't be what you think of when you think of all lolitas, but I accept your apology, sorry for getting heated~)