As someone hip once said, "Save the drama fo ya mama!"
This is Kumoricon. It was pointed out that there is in fact Yaoicon, there is in fact Yuricon. Neither should be a primary focus or placed on an equal in the setting created by/at Kumoricon, and thus, neither is. Why is it so hard to just see the rules, accept Kumoricon for what it is, and move along with our lives? I don't know about some people, but as for me and mine, we are just glad that we have Kumoricon here to attend. Like Boogiepop said, this convention is nothing short of a gift that people work immensely hard to pull off every year, and I don't think I would be out of line to say their efforts should not be wasted on the ungrateful or the picky. Again, as somebody prior to me said, if you don't want to be here because you find some personal injustice over something that isn't a priority (because it just shouldn't be to begin with), then don't come. Simplicity is golden, my fellow otaku...let's not overcomplicate a situation. If one is easily perturbed enough by the policies on yaoi and yuri, policies that were made for completely justified and explained reasons, then perhaps it is best for that one or those few to simply find a more suiting place, rather than buffet the Kumoricon staff with the barrage of complaints and nitpickeries that have been displayed here.
*stands off soapbox, fills it back up with the spilled oranges on the ground, and goes back to selling them on the highway*
^_^