I just now read the "disembarking" thread. It looks like someone was asking the same question I was going to, but I was afraid of taking up wasted space and end up getting no answer anyway. I've had my misunderstandings in the past, and the person who was involved is still afraid and wants nothing to do with me. But that's one I can brush aside, out of 100 others. My answer to anyone thinking of posting the question "how does anyone feel about me?" is simply try to get to a meet and find out, maybe ask in person. You won't know until you go.
That being said, I haven't been to a meetup in so long. So as far as I know I'm not having a negative or positive impact on anyone, I'm neutral.
The only thing that stopped me from coming to the Pokemon meetup was missing two parts to my costume and sleeping in too late to get there on time. I should have finished the costume and prepared myself the night before. But oh well, there's another weekend coming up.