Well, I'm hardly older, I suppose. I'm 21, so I'm much older than the general age of the common forumsters, I think. I do agree, meetups can be awkward because there is an entirely different code of what is "assumed to be acceptable" between the young and the matured. I'm only 21, but already I know what is not cool to do in public, what is obviously annoying/obnoxious/rude, etc. Many young people don't have a hold on this concept yet, so it can make meetups weird, which is why, overall, I don't branch out and try to meet lots of new people at events. I tend to just hang out with the people I already know (because I know they won't bother or annoy me, lol). I don't mean to speak out against the young like a crotchety old man or anything, but the obnoxious, loud, rambunctious little youngsters who "don't know how to act" so to speak, make lots of potentially fun things not fun. So, I do tend to stick with the older crowd. *shrug* That's how I am.