That's because people like to continually poke at others until they snap.
But if you don't get angry, then most of the time they feel like idiots.
As fun as it might be to get someone angry, people are generally more understandable when they keep calm and explain things in a well kept manner.
That way, you usually get more people to see where you're coming from, that, and they won't snap back.
But anyway, Yuri, Yaoi, Het; it doesn't matter to me, just as long as the stories good.
Not like that. It isn't as though I respond so easily to taunts/flames more like..
Me: Oh yea I saw that anime and it was really good. What do you guys think?
* Crickets*
Me: Oh I'll join your photoshoot. I'm going as this person.
*Crickets*
Me: I'm trying out for this part in a Pheonix Wright dub. It's a lot fun. Anyone else want to try?
*Crickets*
Me: Sorry I was away for so long. I had some minor surgery but I'm all better now. So what'd I miss?
THEN someone responds: We don't want to hear about it you attention wh**e
That kinda thing.
Aaanywho that's exactly why I don't like het or Yuri. I can tolerate Yuri, but Het is absolutely out of the question. I find that most jsut ..nasty.
Most of the time it's just..disgusting. They almost always use derogative words instead of proper terms. It's crude, it's degrading exc.
My friend once asked me, seriously, why I like Yaoi so much but will 'read Yuri before het' I told him because there are no gender roles, no control, or dominating issue between genders. I think that's, at least, sub consciously why a lot of girls/women like yaoi that and for the same reason.
They meant me obviously.
I'm sorry about that, most things aren't obvious to me ![Cheesy :D](https://www.kumoricon.org/forums/Smileys/default/cheesy.gif)
As for everthing else, I'm quite apologetic if you feel you've been ignored. I thought that I was responding to you in a decently polite manner, but I suppose I rubbed off on you the wrong way. You obviously feel quite strongly that all Yuri and Yaoi is nothing but senseless porn. I disagree, so of course I combated your point, if you expected everyone to agree with you, then I must say that that's your bad, since no one shares the same opinion.
Yuri, het, yaoi- they all involve love in some shape or form. So let's respect and love each other here ![Smiley :)](https://www.kumoricon.org/forums/Smileys/default/smiley.gif)
Don't feel bad at all. As I said you just caught me in a bad mood. It had nothing to do with this thread.
Actually, you misunderstood. It is porn, and I like porn. I mean that it is 'just porn' in that it isn't worth keeping up an epic argument over.
I like Loveless.I don't mind depressing. It's better than overly sugary sweet fluff. I really don't like fluff. i had no idea there was an anime though. I want to fidn it now.
That is another thing about yaoi and yuri though. Nearly all shonen ai or yaoi have some yuri or at least the 'hot female friend' in yuri, chya, good luck even seeing a man. If you go on a Yaoi forum full of women and bring up Yuri 99% of the time, their cool with it. Bring up yaoi on an yuri or all male and you'd better expect to get your ass flamed the hell out of there.
I probably wouldn't have any issue at all if everyone could just be a little more tolerant all across the board.