I have a question.
Last year @ k-con, I asked a cosplayer if I could take his picture...I was pretty polite like I always am, but I was turned down with a "No." A couple seconds of awkward silence and then I realized he had said no. Then, I said, verbatim: "Ummm, okay, thanks..."
I was just flabbergasted since I never had someone say no, I mean, isn't it flattering for someone to take your pic? I'd be happy like a crazy school girl especially if I was cosplaying!
But, I was wondering if there was a better approach to this? I just felt awkward, but still very respectful.