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SageBell · « **on:** March 09, 2009, 07:26:08 pm »

the suckage and the fail.
so tomorrow 2 years ago my dad died.
and guess what mom's in the hospitol now.
possible clot
p.s. i'm only 18.

Kahlan4 · « **Reply #1 on:** March 09, 2009, 07:53:31 pm »

i'm sorry to hear about your dad, and your mom T.T

i know how you feel about the anniversary of your dad's passing, my dad passed away a year ago on march 4th, and i've been having a really tough time of it too.

i hope your mom will be ok, i'll be praying for you both <3

jaybug · « **Reply #2 on:** March 09, 2009, 08:13:53 pm »

Godspeed and good luck.

~boogiepop~ · « **Reply #3 on:** March 09, 2009, 09:08:39 pm »

I'm sorry you have to go through that Sagebell.

My wishes to your mother.

Teasel · « **Reply #4 on:** March 09, 2009, 09:26:06 pm »

^ Seriously.

You have my sympathies Sagebell.

superjaz · « **Reply #5 on:** March 09, 2009, 09:53:08 pm »

it never gets easyer I am sad to say, its there it just varies how close to the surface it is, and you can't control what brings it to the surface
I get this way when it nears the anivery of my best friends death or a batman movie cuz that was his nick name it was hard seeing the last batman movie,
or the last time I saw my dad, its been about 10 years since I last saw him It was hard at the wedding cuz he never answerd the invite but after the wedding I realised it wasn't nec my dad i was missing, just having a father, the hugs the threats to future boyfriends the talk of just stuff, some telling you that your special just cuz you are you, unconditional, that I miss so much

Man of the Public · « **Reply #6 on:** March 09, 2009, 09:56:11 pm »

May your mother recover with all due speed.

I'm sorry for your pain.

SageBell · « **Reply #7 on:** March 10, 2009, 06:55:32 am »

she's going in for an an-geo-gram which to my understanding is where they go in and widen the artery or something

EveofAbyss · « **Reply #8 on:** March 10, 2009, 07:02:07 am »

So are you staying with relatives currently, or are you living on your own already?

Stevie · « **Reply #9 on:** March 10, 2009, 07:20:34 am »

Wow, your life is NOTHING compared to what I've been through.

Dad died... He also moved to Oregon. Then we moved to Oregon.

Then he died

Before that, my MOM had to get Thyroid Cancer for herself, and now her right lung is paralyzed. No more roller coasters for her, huh? Because the stupid docter had to go ahead and nick her forenic nerve that goes somewhere to paralyze that side of her Diaphram.

makichan · « **Reply #10 on:** March 10, 2009, 08:47:25 am »

Quote from: Stevie on March 10, 2009, 07:20:34 am

Wow, your life is NOTHING compared to what I've been through.

Dad died... He also moved to Oregon. Then we moved to Oregon.

Then he died

Before that, my MOM had to get Thyroid Cancer for herself, and now her right lung is paralyzed. No more roller coasters for her, huh? Because the stupid docter had to go ahead and nick her forenic nerve that goes somewhere to paralyze that side of her Diaphram.

Is this a competition? $:-\$

Well anyway, I hope your mother is going to be alright Sagebell. It's always really hard to see someone you love go through something like this.

EveofAbyss · « **Reply #11 on:** March 10, 2009, 10:28:16 am »

Quote from: Stevie on March 10, 2009, 07:20:34 am

Wow, your life is NOTHING compared to what I've been through.

Dad died... He also moved to Oregon. Then we moved to Oregon.

Then he died

Before that, my MOM had to get Thyroid Cancer for herself, and now her right lung is paralyzed. No more roller coasters for her, huh? Because the stupid docter had to go ahead and nick her forenic nerve that goes somewhere to paralyze that side of her Diaphram.

Are you serious right now? You're serious? Granted you're 12, I'll cut you some slack...but even a 12 year old knows when to keep their mouth shut.

She never said you had it easy, she didn't say anything to you. Why are you being so antagonistic? It sucks that you have had a similar situation. But instead of beating Sagebell down in her time of need, why don't you use your experience to try to help her out, and be a sympathetic figure for her? This is no place for competition. So don't make it into one, because you're going to end up on the wrong side of A LOT OF PEOPLE. So, take the hint.

Seluecos · « **Reply #12 on:** March 10, 2009, 12:45:48 pm »

Sorry to here that SageBell =/
Best of luck to your mother, hope everything works out the best it can.

Kahlan4 · « **Reply #13 on:** March 10, 2009, 03:07:16 pm »

Quote from: SageBell on March 10, 2009, 06:55:32 am

she's going in for an an-geo-gram which to my understanding is where they go in and widen the artery or something

i hope they find out whatever is wrong and can fix it quickly. if you need anything or someone to talk to or just vent to, i'm here ^.^ still praying for you guys <3

SageBell · « **Reply #14 on:** March 10, 2009, 03:33:54 pm »

Quote from: EveofAbyss on March 10, 2009, 07:02:07 am

So are you staying with relatives currently, or are you living on your own already?

I'm staying at home. with the cats and dog. alone.

p.s. stevie. my parents never fought. dad suddenly was hospitolized from brain cancer and died. i'm also a only child w/o any close reletives. you don;t know whose gone through worse. #1 ppl deal with everything diff anyways.. my dad died when i was 16

anyways i'm goingto hte hospital

superjaz · « **Reply #15 on:** March 10, 2009, 06:28:40 pm »

every one goes through things differntly we all have had differnt life experinces/back grounds that affect how we react to things and every one is entitled to react to that pain/stressors in their own way, the last thing people need is to be told "you aint got it so bad/so what" empathy and sympathy NOT pity
(sorry if my psy bachlors degree is shownin)
I had a hard childhood, my husband had the oppisit but that is not his fault, but he has had to understand why i act the way i do at times
take care and if you need us we are here

jaybug · « **Reply #16 on:** March 10, 2009, 06:32:03 pm »

let us know if there is something we can do more than to offer our prayers and heartfelt sympathies.

SageBell · « **Reply #17 on:** March 10, 2009, 06:58:33 pm »

its scary you know. She had 2 completely clogged arteries. they put cists(?) in them to openem up. she has a 3rd mostly clogged artery.
she is stuck with bed rest.
she must stop smoking and eat incredibly healthy.
I don't know when she'll be home.
Only time will tell.

ew... i have homework.. i need to clean... and bla.

Stevie · « **Reply #18 on:** March 10, 2009, 07:19:27 pm »

Quote from: SageBell on March 10, 2009, 06:58:33 pm

its scary you know. She had 2 completely clogged arteries. they put cists(?) in them to openem up. she has a 3rd mostly clogged artery.
she is stuck with bed rest.
she must stop smoking and eat incredibly healthy.
I don't know when she'll be home.
Only time will tell.

ew... i have homework.. i need to clean... and bla.

I know, cleaning sucks.

jaybug · « **Reply #19 on:** March 10, 2009, 08:23:09 pm »

Not stents like vice-president Cheney. I teased my mom when she had a screw installed in her ankle, that she was a junkie, as she was hooked up to the morphine drip system, one of the few times I have had my mother swear at me. lol

SageBell · « **Reply #20 on:** March 10, 2009, 08:53:39 pm »

when my aunt and i were leaving i almost wanted to say dont do drugs.

Griff_the_dragoon · « **Reply #21 on:** March 10, 2009, 09:22:26 pm »

I am sorry Sage I know how you feel I have been there before

If ya need someone to talk to hit me up on myspace k

superjaz · « **Reply #22 on:** March 11, 2009, 11:11:40 am »

I would suggest keeping a note book of all your moms health related stuff and include doctors orders and such, thats what my aunt does for my grandmother lita for her diabitis, she had a heart attack this last summer and phemonia at the same time, (she got this right after coming to viset me to see me graduate from collage and did i feel guilty about it) 3 valves in her heart were cloged, they did stints, she recoverd shes really the only grandparent i have ever had

be sure to eat even if your not hungery, and give your mind breaks like reading or video games something that doset need thought, because its these kind of stress that makes you clench your sholders and muscles when you dont even know it

Daxe · « **Reply #23 on:** March 11, 2009, 01:49:22 pm »

Ive always found a nice cup of tea, some meditation and soft music helps calm the nerves. Good luck.

Syd-chan · « **Reply #24 on:** March 11, 2009, 03:13:07 pm »

Good luck. >< I haven't been through anything like this, so I can't really offer any helpful advice. My condolences and good luck once again.

SageBell · « **Reply #25 on:** March 11, 2009, 08:53:18 pm »

mom's home. its weird.

Syd-chan · « **Reply #26 on:** March 11, 2009, 09:24:16 pm »

Weird? >< Gah, I won't press.

At least she's home.

superjaz · « **Reply #27 on:** March 11, 2009, 09:39:11 pm »

I can understand that I know how i have felt after a loved one has gone thru somthing that could have taken them from me its lke "when did you turn into very breakable china?"

SageBell · « **Reply #28 on:** March 12, 2009, 08:13:41 pm »

haha *poke poke* ah damn. "hey get the super glue"

superjaz · « **Reply #29 on:** March 13, 2009, 08:10:40 am »

it was auctualy pretty funny when my grandma Lita who had had a heart attack (among other things this last summer is diabetic and has a really bad lingering cough (she worked with saudering before they invented ventilation)
and chris's great aunt opal who had just gotton over something (flu hip replacement broken hip?) and flown in from missori for our wedding
there were both at our place for our rehersal and my grandma was trying to give opal the recliner chair and opal was like "no no go head and sit down"

tofutakeout · « **Reply #30 on:** March 13, 2009, 04:20:23 pm »

Quote from: Stevie on March 10, 2009, 07:19:27 pm

Quote from: SageBell on March 10, 2009, 06:58:33 pm
its scary you know. She had 2 completely clogged arteries. they put cists(?) in them to openem up. she has a 3rd mostly clogged artery.
she is stuck with bed rest.
she must stop smoking and eat incredibly healthy.
I don't know when she'll be home.
Only time will tell.

ew... i have homework.. i need to clean... and bla.

I know, cleaning sucks.

not when your me it doesn't. 8D I'm cleaning sage's room as we speak. becasue I like too. but I'm not a clean freak, which is odd.

Stevie · « **Reply #31 on:** March 14, 2009, 11:04:36 am »

Quote from: tofutakeout on March 13, 2009, 04:20:23 pm

Quote from: Stevie on March 10, 2009, 07:19:27 pm
Quote from: SageBell on March 10, 2009, 06:58:33 pm
its scary you know. She had 2 completely clogged arteries. they put cists(?) in them to openem up. she has a 3rd mostly clogged artery.
she is stuck with bed rest.
she must stop smoking and eat incredibly healthy.
I don't know when she'll be home.
Only time will tell.

ew... i have homework.. i need to clean... and bla.

I know, cleaning sucks.
not when your me it doesn't. 8D I'm cleaning sage's room as we speak. becasue I like too. but I'm not a clean freak, which is odd.

0.0#

Okay. The only advice I give you: Clean your living room.
The reason I say that? Most living rooms are dirty.

BACK ON THE ORIGINAL TOPIC;
IF someone you know has died, GO THE DE DOUGY CENTER.

If you're grieving. It's for kids/teens/adults who are grieving.

Zat is all.

SageBell · « **Reply #32 on:** March 14, 2009, 12:49:37 pm »

^^ don't even under stand your post.

I'm over it its not really greiving.. and like you miss some one you cry alittle then your better... or you get hugs.. hugs are great.. stupid kevin <_<

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